For the Caregivers

How do you take care of yourself while caring for someone with a chronic illness? Not the advice version — what you actually do.

What's something you stopped doing because you realised it wasn't helping — even though it felt like it should?

What does the person you care for actually need from you — that took you a while to figure out? Especially things that surprised you or weren't what you expected.

Caring for my partner with ME/CFS

Three years in. I love her and I'm exhausted and I feel guilty for being exhausted because she's the one who is sick. I don't talk about this to anyone in my life. Is there anyone …